Because in that family money decisions belong to both parents, not to one. Tenzing says it in the story: “When any special expenses come up, I have often seen that they discuss them together.”
Three good reasons lie behind the habit.
| Reason | What it shows |
|---|---|
| Both of them earn | The father runs a small grocery store; the mother works in a local handicraft cooperative. The money is the family’s, so the decision is the family’s |
| Two people see more than one | A special expense is a large one. Talking it over means fewer mistakes and no regrets afterwards |
| They are saving for the unexpected | Tenzing’s mother says “we should always try to save some money for any unexpected needs that may arise in the future”. Any big spending affects that saving, so both must agree |