How to do this activity. Split the class in two. Group A argues for letting the stranger in, Group B argues against. Each group gets five minutes to list its points, then two minutes each to present. Nobody is “right” at the end — the purpose is to see that both sides are made of real reasons, which is exactly why the family in the story “goes into a huddle” instead of deciding at once.
What a good set of arguments needs: reasons, not feelings alone; at least one point about safety, one about the stranger’s situation, and one about what you would want if you were the stranger; and an answer to the other group’s strongest point.
| Group A — for letting him in | Group B — against letting him in |
|---|---|
| It is midnight and raining hard. A person left outside in that could fall ill or be in danger. Refusing costs him a great deal and costs us very little | We know nothing about him. The whole story — the car, the breakdown, the road — is only his claim, and we cannot check any of it at midnight |
| Atithi devo bhava — “a guest is like God”. Shelter for a night is the oldest kind of help there is, and our own tradition treats it as a duty | There are children and elderly people in the house. Their safety is our first responsibility, and it is not ours to gamble with |
| If our family were stranded far from home on such a night, we would hope somebody opened a door for us | Once someone is inside a house at night, it is very hard to undo the decision if it turns out to be wrong |
| There are ways to help without risk — the choice is not only “in” or “out” | Helping is not the same as hosting. We can help him without opening the door |
Sample answer: Both groups are arguing about the same two things — the stranger’s need and our family’s safety. Our group would let him in, but not blindly. We would first call the police helpline and tell them a stranger has come; ask his name and see an identity card; offer him the verandah or the outer room rather than the inside of the house; give him tea, a towel and a phone to call for help; and keep one adult awake. That way we act on atithi devo bhava without ignoring the very real point the other group makes. If any of those steps went wrong — if he refused to give a name, for instance — we would help him from the doorstep instead: an umbrella, a hot drink, and the number of a mechanic.